A few months ago I was having lots of girls from Tinder flake on dates 1 hour before the date. I realized that I needed to make changes on how I tried to get dates from Tinder. I decided to use GALNUC to try to cut down on flaking before dates. After I matched with a new girl on Tinder and I got chatting with her I used Roosh‘s GALNUC technique from his very important book Day Bang to get her out on a first date. She didn’t flake 1 hour before the date and we had a nice first date.
GALNUC is a series of questions to ask a girl and have mini conversations about them to inspire her to want to go on a date with you. GALNUC stands for:
G- Are you half German?
A- What is your age?
L- Where do you live?
N- What is your phone number?
U- Where do you usually hang out?
C- You seem like an interesting girl. Let’s keep this conversation going. . .
Let’s take a look at my conversation with this Tinder match and how I used GALNUC to get her out on a 1st date.
To start the conversation I just used the most basic opener. I just said Hi. Most girls on Tinder don’t even respond to even saying “Hi” so it doesn’t make sense to say more than “Hi” before she at least responds. After she responded to my opener I knew that she had at least enough interest in me to respond. Then I asked her a simple “How are you” type question while dropping a piece of conversation bait about my day.
She gave a small acknowledgement about my small piece of bait but didn’t want to talk about it. She at least told me what she was up to. She wasn’t giving me much to work with, but I expected that. She gave me a small piece of bait by giving me information about what she was doing.
I gave her a follow up question about where she went to the pool but I wrapped it up in asking here where she lived and I also challenged her about where she was. I always try to avoid questions like, “Where are you from” or “Who do you know” because they always devolve into a boring interview and the girl always loses interest.
I got her to respond, but she still wasn’t showing much interest. She wasn’t showing much interest but she was still responding. I decided to drop a couple of pieces of bait but NOT include a question. I figured that at this point either she needed to show at least some interest and invest a little bit in the conversation or it was time to end the conversation. I dropped bait about where I lived and I pointed out that I was on a business trip and the weather was great. There was lots of bait and if she wanted to keep talking then she would find a way to keep the conversation going.
BOOM! She asked me a question about my business trip. At this point I knew that she was interested in keeping the conversation going. I figured that I could go right into Roosh’s GALNUC technique here. However I decided to build a little more comfort by talking about my business trip and my family. After talking about my family I asked her about her family and she gave me her biggest answer yet and giving more information so I could see her opening up.
I knew that it was time to use GALNUC so I asked her if she was part German. She told me her European heritage so I gave her some banter about being a French girl. She was very happy to talk about being a French-Italian girl and even gave me a follow up question about my hometown. It’s important to see how I don’t just rush through the GALNUC questions but I let each of them be part of a conversation and banter a little bit about each of them.
After we bantered about where I lived she talked about how she would be interested in checking out my town, which was a big indicator of interest because she was signaling that she would be interested in being in my town and implying that it would be so easy to meet up.
At this point it was time to move on in GALNUC. I already knew her age because everybody’s age is on Tinder so I didn’t need to know that plus I already knew where she lived from earlier in the conversation. I asked her what she liked to do for fun which was like the GALNUC question, “Where do you usually hang out?”
She gave me standard boiler plate stuff all girls say when you ask them what they like to do. From this standard answer all girls give you can see why it is so important for men to have lots of interesting hobbies and interests because girls’ lives are so boring and repetitive.
At this point I decided to continue GALNUC by using, “You seem like an interesting girl. Let’s continue the conversation. . .” I gave her a day and time for us to set up the date. We then worked out the details over a few back and forth messages.
It is interesting to see how it seems like she is being difficult. Many times when a girl isn’t interested in going out they make things difficult. I didn’t know if she was being difficult but I went ahead and worked out different times and locations until a got one that worked for both of us.
Finally we were able to agree on a day and time. I wrapped up the conversation by confirming the day and time. As soon as the date was set up I got out of the conversation.
One of the ways that lots of men mess up getting dates off Tinder is by continuing to talk after they get the date set up. They over talk with girls and girls either lose interest or girls feel like he is just a pen pal and lose interest in going out on a date with him.
GALNUC is a powerful tool to use to get girls out on dates. You can use it in daily life or online. It will cut down on the number of girls who flake on dates and makes it so that you become the kind of man who is able to use Tinder to get real life first dates.
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