Parents sometimes try to live out experiences in their children. They pressure their children to be cheerleaders or star football quarterbacks, glamorous roles that they regret missing out on when they were in school. Parents also sometimes like to signal pride to their buddies, about how progressive and hip they are because of their star son or daughter. Many parents even go so far as to encourage their children to be homosexual or transexual.
But these days, the trend is for “progressive” parents to pressure their children to change genders, be homosexual, transexual or at the very least become bisexual or genderfluid.
Every day, radical Leftists eat up thousands of blog articles telling them about gender norms, and they dream of the day they can announce to their friends at Starbucks that they are compassionately easing a child through the process of gender reassignment–shielding ze or zer from all the hatred of Christian yokels, and contributing to a more equitable society.
If you are one of these children caught up in the current year’s sick trend, and if you feel like your parents are pressuring you to be homosexual or transexual and make a choice that you are not comfortable with, this article is for you.
Being Homosexual/ Transexual Will Ruin Your Life
It is never a good thing to be pressured into something you don’t feel 100% is right. But when it comes to “gender” identity, the consequences will almost certainly ruin your life.
One of the first attempts at gender reassignment, in 1965, was hailed as a modern marvel of science. A botched circumcision led to a mutilated penis for young David Reimer, and rather than attempt reconstruction, the doctor attempted to turn the boy into a girl. It was a total failure for all involved. Over the years, it completely destroyed the family.
These days, when Leftists want to modify gender, they announce that deep inside they were “always this way.” Socialists treat “gender” as a mere construct of a person’s plumbing. If you don’t like your gender or feel like you were “born wrong,” simply change the plumbing.
But this is a dangerous lie. Reccently, scientists discovered that at least 1/3 of men and women’s genes are different. They uncovered 6,500 genes that manifest differently according to sex. (See study here.)
Men and women are very different. They have evolved on divergent evolutionary paths for millions of years. There is a reason why almost half of transsexuals have attempted suicide. People simply are not made to live contrary to such an intrinsic part of their human identity. Leftists believe a big lie that human identity is like a machine, while the truth is human identity is static and spiritually eternal.
Recognize How Popular Culture Brainwashes You
That is a lot to take in, I understand. Every second, every day, the media, schools, and popular culture teach you that personal identity is programmed. But it turns out those fringe Christians were right. Gender and sexuality are eternal properties created by God.
This is difficult for many to admit because of the pervasive narrative against it in Western culture. Until a mere couple decades ago, the word “sex” referred to man or woman. Nobody said gender. They said the “male sex” or “female sex.” The word “gender” referred to grammatical qualities of nouns.
But the feminists didn’t like that. They changed the definition of sex to refer to sexual intercourse. They changed gender to refer to man and woman, and removed male and female qualities completely from grammatical structure. By doing so, they manipulated our consciousness away from qualities that divide men and women except for our plumbing, the physical devices for copulation which can by changed through surgery.
Thus, the feminists manipulated us into disbelieving that there are any differences except for the parts we use for copulation. Every time you say the words “male,” “female,” or “sex” in today’s popular usage, you are compounding the brainwashing. You are telling yourself that you are a machine, not human.
Karl Marx sought to eliminate traditional relationships in order to turn individuals into economic producers, who identify with their class. So with sex identity finally erased from our language, Marxists went on to demand personal relationships conform to their societal rules. Did you think Prop 8 was about equality? No, it was about government defining marriage, controlling personal relationships.
Now, teachers are now commonly teaching kids that personal relationships must conform to class identity and promote economic production and social justice. The brainwashing is thick and the justifications are convoluted.
Your parents probably started the brainwashing early on. Maybe they taught you that you don’t need a man, or woman. Maybe they encouraged you to try on a dress for silly fun, even though you are a boy. Maybe they censored talk of “boyfriends” and “girlfriends” and only spoke of “partners.” Maybe they talked about attractive physical qualities of people the same sex as you. No matter how they did it, they encouraged you to be homosexual or transexual.
Embrace Sexist Stereotypes
There is a lot to undo. Just the fact that you are reading this right now shows unbelievable fortitude. I cannot imagine the courage it takes to reject a constant voice that has whispered lies in your ear since birth. What living creature has the courage, the sheer force of will, to take off the rose-colored glasses and confront the cold dark truth?
It will be difficult to delve into classic books that promote traditional sex roles, like the bible and Greek philosophy, but that is the next step. As you read, your super-ego will scream outrage. But it’s not fair that men usually were in charge! Just push through it. Read classic literature. Watch movies and TV shows from before 1968. Try to understand why traditional culture has allowed civilizations to thrive while decadent cultures similar to today’s West quickly toppled.
The pervasive media tells you masculine and feminine qualities are evil and oppressive. But you will recognize the value of of these qualities, and you will gain a new understanding of what “fair” actually means. Maybe it is fair for men to be in charge? Maybe fair doesn’t mean everybody is exactly the same? Maybe it is fair for women to be at home with the kids while her man is out working a job to provide for the family?
If you are a man, lift weights at the gym and play sports. If you are a woman, learn how to sew and cook. You will feel enriched by living such stereotypes, because such behavior is not a social construct, but an artistic manifestation of your human identity. Like brush strokes on a canvas, each traditional masculine or feminine activity will lead to discovery and bring you closer to your inner human ideal.
Your Leftist parents will obviously be disappointed.
Maybe you will need to lift weights or sew in secret. That’s fine. You don’t need to hit them with it until you are ready for the confrontation.
Like the passive-aggressive betas that they probably are, your parents will likely say, “That’s nice, if that’s your choice,” and then take away your phone and car keys. They may withhold affection and stop giving you encouragement for your life goals. Be ready for the consequences of your honesty.
Look For Spiritual Aid
One of the hardest realizations in life is to learn that nobody cares about what is best for you except you. People are nice, and family love each other, but we do not live in a world of gummy bears and ice cream. Your parents only encourage you to be “open-minded” and “free-thinking” because they want to feel progressive and cool, like good 21st century parents that they see in every San Francisco sitcom, not because they actually have your interests in mind.
Same goes for the government. The Supreme Court did not dictate gay marriage because they feel compassion for America’s citizens, but because they want control over societal norms and institutions of relationships.
Everyone must confront this realization. We all must accept this, as it is human nature, and the belief that parents or government is taking care of us is a complete illusion. Ultimately, you need to look out for yourself and not rely on anyone else, or you will just get used and thrown away.
Part of the anxiety of separating from parents is the shame of letting them down, making them disappointed. But this is something we all must confront. We all need to be the rebellious teenager who discovers what is best for himself. Become independent–not just independent of parents, but of our oppressive Western culture.
This does not mean you are alone. Love is still a powerful thing, and you can still receive love and give love to your parents. They are still your parents, even if you disagree about certain things. A mature person is able to disagree with people about fundamental beliefs and still love them.
You probably hate organized religion, like all the good Milenials who have been programmed by the media to hate religion. But there is a very powerful tool for gaining independence in spirituality. Seeking and discovering spiritual truth is a powerful tool to gain confidence and to not feel alone.
Start with simple prayers. Read a little bit of scripture. You will find that it liberates your free will, as free will is usually replaced by popular culture’s values, which are crutches of dependency. Discard that dependency, and reach to an unseen spiritual being who actually does have your best interest in mind. Look for angels.
Hate Social Justice Ideology
Your new spiritual knowledge will help you reach out to your parents compassionately. They are just trying to be parents. Don’t be angry with them. Almost everybody is fooled by our perverse popular culture these days.
Leftists hate people who do not fall in line with their Marxist ideology. They hate Trump for being pro-American, so they destroy anyone associated with him, one by one. But in Christianity, it is the other way around. We are different. We love the sinner but hate the sin.
It is perfectly natural to feel utter disgust for the Marxist ideology that led your parents to ruin your life. It is important to understand how the tentacles of this ideology poison your life in other ways than just this. In what other ways does this unholy doctrine lead you astray, onto broad paths? It is never too late.
Enmity is a gift from God that prevents the angels of the devil from taking over our bodies. It is natural and good for us to be repulsed by perversions and physical vices, and it is good to remove ourselves from anyone who puts us on that path. Remove yourself from media, friends, teachers, family, and anything that is pressuring you away from your divine identity. Do not budge an inch. Do not give in to the shaming and bullying.
But it is not good to harbor personal hatred or resentment for loved ones. Part of believing that humans characteristics are eternal, that we are not machines with interchangeable parts, is respect for the eternal welfare of every person’s soul. You can measure your true acceptance of your divine identity by how you are able to love the SJWs close to you who seek to destroy you. Still love them and embrace them as your family.
I wish you the best on your difficult path. Take joy in the small victories and push yourself through the challenges. Do not hesitate to contact us here at RedGulls and ask for help or words of encouragement. It is a remarkable journey you are on, and I promise it will always be worth it.